Knowing when to leave is important, sometimes it's just time to pack your bags. Often times we stay in a relationship because that is all we know or it's "comfortable." There are several key indicators that allow us see when its time to quit. We need to pay attention to these.
Sometimes counseling works but when it fails...LEAVE! Get yourself a good lawyer and stash some money away while you are in counseling just in case you need it Leave when counseling fails. Remember also that it is important that if any of these key indicators are occurring you should have him leave or you need to leave until your are sure that these are no longer occurring. You are God's child and do not deserve to be abused. God does not expect us to be any ones doormat.
Key indicators
1. Infidelity- he/she is cheating on you. (One time is too many)
2. Physical abuse- your no ones doormat you don't deserve this GET OUT!
3. Mental abuse- this one is a tough one to know but very important. Sometimes words hurt more then physical abuse.
a. He puts you down in front of others.
b. He controls you- wants to know where you are and what you are doing all the time.
c. He says things that does not bring you up but always brings you
4. He makes you cry all the time or depressed.
5. If your dating and your parents and friends don't like him. Trust them and take a deeper look at things because sometimes we are blind with love and can't see the real picture!God gave us these people to love us and sometimes we have to trust them and look to see what they are really trying to say. Sometimes we are blinded by love and cannot see the whole picture.
Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love http://www.askdrmamalove.com answering all your questions on relationships,love, marriage and family issues. Ask you questions and I'll get back to you as soon as possible.
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