Marriage is something two people do when they are in love. When they have the decision to love each other no matter what. There are a few things that will help your marriage to last. First thing to remember is never go to sleep angry. This is important because over night allows too much time for the problems to fester and become bigger.
The second thing to remember is when you do argue and everyone will eventually. Remember to use words like "I feel like this.... when you do this" Never use words like "You always do..." You never..." You are placing the blame totally on the other person. It's an accusation. Remember money is on of the biggest areas people fight about. If you have debt problems seek help.
Take interest in what your spouse is doing even if it isn't something you would like to do. Put the other person first. If grocery shopping needs to be done and there is no choice but to go, and if both of you are extremely tired. Who do you think should go to the store? Should you say, "you go I don't feel like going." No, you say, "I'll go I know how tired you are." This is putting the other person first. Compliment your spouse. Your beautiful, you look nice, I'm really proud of you. Thank- you for being so good with our children. Many think that you don't have to tell them, they already know. Well the truth is we all need that affirmation that we are good, that we are worthy and that the spouse still thinks we are great!
Debbie Krause aka Dr. Mama Love http://www.askdrmamalove.com answering all your questions on relationships,love, marriage and family issues. Ask you questions and I'll get back to you as soon as possible.
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